Wednesday, 13 May 2009

My sexy boyfriend

I discovered this week just how much a small change in your mindset can affect your sex life... In the past couple of years although we have had what i would call a healthy amount of sex for a young couple, maybe 3 or 4 times a week, I haven't often really been in the mood. It's like I decided that the Boyfriend was there for love and company and the Boss was there to be my fantasy and, sometimes, my reality.

Recently though I have given myself completely to the Boyfriend and we have been having a more active and exciting sex life than ever. I never realised before just how amazing he really is in bed (& the car, kitchen, shower, etc) and in just a few short days we have done some things I have never done before.

One of these things was anal sex. The thought of this had always turned me on but I have tried it twice before, with the boyfriend and an ex-shag, and had to stop because of the pain. Managed it on Monday night though and although I would definitely limit it to a once in a while activity I will also definitely do it again. The Boyfriend has also taken to lightly spanking me while he takes me from behind and I have found out that he absolutely adores watching me bring myself to orgasm. Also, one of the sexiest things I could ever do for him is lick and suck his fingers when they have just been inside me.

It's amazing that this big change in our sex life can also cause our whole relationship to be completely revitalised. We have been having the best time together, I am so glad I know that all it takes to make him so completely happy is showing him how much I want him. Turns out this relationship malarkey is easy! I am sorry if this is not quite as juicy as previous posts and a little too cheesy, but hopefully I put enough smutty details in there too keep you happy.

2 comments:

  1. Any post about someone enjoying discovering anal is fine with me, I wish more people were open to trying it! Haha I like the 'relationship malarkey is easy' comment, while it's probably a little bit more complicated than that great sex does help, and is probably also an indicator of a good relationship anyway!

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  2. Good sex can definitely save a relationship. A couple of months into our relationship J and i were arguing constantly. One night she came over and without saying a word we just had hot, amazing, angry, rough sex, and since then everything's been amazing, sex and all!

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