Threesome's

For the first time in our three year long relationship the Boyfriend and I talked about our fantasies. It shows how close we have become that he asked me this because I had been thinking just before he mentioned it that I was going to ask him. This meant that when he did I had a nice answer and I'm really hoping that some time soon he is going to surprise me with some ropes and chains.

His answer was only to be expected I suppose. His ultimate fantasy is a threesome. Now why am I not surprised! I don't know what to make of this. We have been together for quite a long time and love each other to pieces, I know I could never ever see him with another girl even if I was involved too. And who would we chose to get involved? I certainly couldn't have a threesome with any girl that I know, imagine the embarrassment afterwards! I can see a couple of months of avoiding each other and stilted conversations and then losing that friendship forever Similarly, I couldn't bear knowing a girl who helped make one of my boyfriends greatest fantasies come true could be his friend afterwards. How could he ever not look at her and imagine her naked? And if I have allowed him to sleep with her once why not again, only this time without me and in secret?

Ultimately I think that a threesome would eventually end our relationship and while I am ore than happy to let him film our next session the threesome is one fantasy that I refuse to indulge him in. Surely it would be better left as just that anyway, could the reality ever be as good as his imagination makes it?

Don't get me wrong though, it isn't something I am completely dismissing. The idea certainly intrigues me. Its just not something I want to do with someone I love.